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Feeling Sad

Feeling sad

 

Everyone feels sad sometimes – it’s normal.  

You’re not alone – lots of kids know what it’s like to feel sad. It won’t last forever – you will feel happy again.

Why do I feel sad?

 

You might feel sad for lots of reasons:

  • Feeling lonely
  • Other kids at school being mean to you
  • Your family moving to a new place
  • Mum, dad or the people who look after you fight too much
  • Someone hurting you, or hurting someone you love
  • Someone you love died or gone away
  • Grown-ups asking you to do things that are too hard for you
  • Someone at home is sick, drinking too much, or using drugs

 

Maybe you don’t know why you feel sad. That’s normal too.

 

How can I feel better?  

There are lots of people who want to help you feel better.

  • Tell a grown-up: Talk to someone in your whānau, or at your school
  • Tell a friend: Hanging out with friends can take your mind off feeling sad
  • Animals can help: Spending time with your cat or dog can help you feel better – pat them, cuddle them or play with them
  • Think happy thoughts: Remind yourself about things you like doing and stuff that makes you laugh

Contact us – we’re here to help.